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Start Each Day With A Grateful Heart

10/19/2020

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It was a Saturday afternoon and when I initially woke my plans were to find something amazing on Netflix to binge and simply relax.  As I started cleaning I realized I had never hung a picture behind my headboard.  If you knew how OCD I could be at times you would know that every single morning it bothered me that there was this empty space looking all naked and lonely.  Trust that it wasn't from lack of searching, but the problem was I had never found the perfect picture to hang, so I decided to wait until I saw what I was looking for.  Well, no time like the present to skip on over to my favorite accessory store and just take a peek.  After all it's free to look and I probably won't find anything anyway.  This is my internal way of attempting to convince myself that I did not need to go shopping, but who needs that type of negativity in their life???  Off I go!

Twenty minutes later, 4 candles, a box of tea, and one amazing picture in my shopping cart, I was smiling from ear to ear because I knew that I had found the perfect picture after all of this time.  It's the little things right?  So they say.  I have stepped into the chapter of my life where things have to be balanced with purpose.  Where is that gonna go?  Don't I already own 5 of those?  Will it fit in my car is truly the only question that requires an answer, because I will find a way to make it work even if I am doing a tiny bit of hoarding in the process.  

Navigating through 2020 has proved to be quite the challenge.  Not sure what to expect or what is going to happen next is what I was forced to figure out.  Full of suspense and unwelcome surprises around every corner, this year was turning into a semi horror, action packed thriller with spurts of comedy.  Only thing is, most of what has happened is far from funny.  I have a mind that is all over the place at any given time, so I credit that with allowing me to keep some form of insane sanity.  If you don't believe me, just know that as I write this I am thinking of a grilled cheese sandwich accompanied by a nice glass of $12 champagne.  I am also wondering where my shipment is that I ordered 6 1/2 days ago, I mean shouldn't it be here by now?!  I'll check the porch when I'm done because just maybe the delivery guy has a phobia with ringing doorbells?  See!  I digress in the worst way...now where was I?

Oh yeah, back to this oddball of a year.  

I can't honestly say that I have always been this master of creativity, yet I found this year to be the most inspiring and eye-opening of them all.  I learned to let go and allow myself the opportunity to grow more into the things and people that I love.  Making things from scratch, doing my own hair, driving across the states to be with my family, writing my whole entire heart out and finding my way back to the power of prayer.  I turned my living room into a dance floor and workout room, became one with nature and started walking in my neighborhood.  I had concerns that because I was single I would go a bit bonkers and that depression would find me.  You hear it so often and you never know if that will be you one day.  I am thankful that I have the ability to make do with what I have and activate my peace from within.  I have done a pretty good job of keeping myself in check with a few minor things.  ⬇️

  1. Get up and get dressed as if I am going into the office.  It's not a blouse and skirt, but at least I've gotten out of my pj's.  Top off the look with a pair of earrings, a little lip gloss, a few sprays of perfume and now I don't feel so blah. 
  2. Take time to make myself breakfast.  Although this is not a daily routine, I promise myself to do it at least 3 days out of the week, besides it's the most important meal of the day.
  3. Drink plenty of water.  It makes me feel revived and it's good for me.
  4. Moisturize my skin.  Just because I'm home doesn't mean I shouldn't keep my skin looking great.
  5. Make a recipe I found online.  It keeps me busy and I'm beyond happy when it comes out the way it looked on the picture.  Taste, not so sure...lol
  6. Go shopping!  I'm an online shopping queen and I believe in treating myself.  
  7. Last but not least, I start each day with a grateful heart!  
 
Maybe your list is a bit different and you find that you need much more in order to cope.  That is perfectly fine, be honest with yourself and start with just one and work your way up to more and more, you will soon find that there are things you never knew you enjoyed so much.  Trust me!

There are specific steps we take in life that prepare us for the unexpected.  You don't know it at the time but that's when it hits you.  You have this epiphany and realize it was never all in vain.  In the midst of quarantine life, and what has quite honestly been the weirdest year of my life, I have learned so much and for that I am forever thankful.  For quiet moments, second chances I never knew I needed.  For visions that are as clear as the mirror image before me.  For laughter, tears of joy and at times tears of remembrance.  And most definitely for finding this amazing picture that gives me the daily affirmation I need.  I am simply thankful for it all.  💫
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~AJ
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R. Elgin Wilford link
10/19/2020 22:42:43

Absolutely Amazing as always. Your ability to relax and write can be felt by the reader. Your writing makes me desire the peace that resides in your home to dwell in mine as well. I love your life and your pen is bountifully blessed already!!!!!

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A. Jones
10/20/2020 09:09:09

I appreciate your kind words. Thank you so much for your insight and inspiration 😊

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Craig J
10/20/2020 10:22:16

Love the post, the sign and the sentiment...and as I write that I just noticed sentimental and sentiment share the same root. Makes perfect sense, that, since we should be holding forth in thought that which we appreciate which in essence is starting each day with the grateful heart of whence you speak. ☺️ I start each day with a 10 to 30 mile run and during my hour to three of striding I make it a point to think how grateful I am of my neighborhood, my family, my church, my freedom, my music...and my endless energy. Your post made me realize and acknowledge my endless energy comes from my boundless gratitude. Well written. Gloriously received. Next one, anticipated! 🙂

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A. Jones
10/20/2020 10:43:57

Thank you for your words of wisdom. So true that our strength is built on the faith of others and so many things around us. Without it, we might find ourselves struggling to make it to just another day. It all starts with gratitude. So glad you enjoyed and the next one is coming soon ☺️

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K Francis
10/25/2020 11:46:01

This was such a great read! I especially loved your list, I agree the simplest things in life is so satisfying when your in your peace. I am definitely a fan of your writing.

By the way while reading this I was thinking do I have enough gas in my car? what should I cook for dinner?did I pay all my bills? lol joking 😄

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A. Jones
10/25/2020 14:19:46

So glad you enjoyed it, thanks so much for taking the time to pause and read my post! Peace sets the tone for what is to come, without it and things do not flow quite the same. 😊

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Dr Baker
5/7/2021 11:56:09

Waiting for the delivery drivers... anxiety over what's next... a grilled cheese and a $12 glass of champagne... sounds like 2020 to me. I never quite got the Pandemic schedule down. And how you were able make it out of your pj's everyday... I applaud you. Your writing is inspirational and therapeutic. Thanks for the read Ms Jones!

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A. Jones
5/12/2021 17:30:56

Thanks so much...so glad you enjoyed this post. It's important to be grateful for what is before you, how to make what you have work and just take it from there!

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4/14/2023 05:41:05

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A. Jones
4/16/2023 09:28:50

So glad you loved it! Thank you for stopping by ☺️

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