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The Hallway of Feels

5/3/2024

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How do you evoke feeling into a blank and sad space?  The importance of things is often overlooked.  Labeled as clutter and dust grabbers.  Inanimate objects that have no permanent or perfect place and should possibly be gifted to another or thrown in the trash.

I would absolutely never.    

Holding onto things has given me joy.  I feel it between my fingers and gaze into a memory as if I can bring it back to current reality.  Remembering the moments when.  When we had a get together and laughed all night.  Or when we received the best news ever and cried out in joy.  Either way it's at Lisa's house and she has a special place for it.    

I have arrived at the purpose stage in my life.  I don't want a memory tucked away in a box.  I want to see it and allow an enormous amount of joy into my space.   

​The hallway of feels started with a crooked light switch.  My OCD was in overdrive each and every time I walked down the hall.  Looking at the unleveled work of whomever put it up made me want to send out an all points bulletin just so I could shake them and put them in timeout.  Description of the suspect?  Find a person who just doesn't care!

Trust me I laugh at myself often.  ​

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The naked eye is very misleading when you attempt to balance design on an open canvas.  I didn't realize how off the light switch was until I hung the first picture.  It appears level, however, in most cases it is a close second to the leaning Tower of Pisa.  As I started working on my picture wall I knew I wanted to go with a color scheme but I wouldn't know what that was until I found my first picture.   Natural picture frames combined with black frames to add contrast and an even balance.   I incorporated canvas prints, mirrors and other things that simply make me smile.  It really is that easy.

Going big or going home is the motto here.  Once I started, it began to take on a life of its own.  Oh, I will add flowers to the wall and maybe a seashell, or even a porcelain mask I was gifted from Russia that spent over 10 years in a drawer collecting dust.  

A treasure in a box becomes lost joy.  Dust it off and bring it back to life.  ~A. Jones 


​As I add more items I realize I shouldn't limit myself to one side of the hallway.  I will expand my feels into each nook and cranny I can find.  The space over the entry ways.  The little slither of wall space between the pantry and my room.  The eyes will truly go into overdrive and feel and bit overwhelmed but it will be something to remember.  My hallway of feels is like a big warm hug whenever you need it.  I will take that each and every day.

A few pictures below to show the progress I have made.  I can't rush this feeling.  I will know what goes up next when I feel it in my anxious bones.  
The end goal is a sentiment of feels that will reach out and grab me, or you, each and every time. 

​~AJ 📸
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Bigger and Brighter

3/9/2023

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As I sit in front of my computer at this very moment, the snow is falling. I begin to suck my teeth in disgust.  Yet and still, I find it quite pretty, the way it falls so quietly and covers everything in its path.  In that same amazingly angelic moment, I hope by tomorrow morning a bursting beam of sunshine will have melted any reminders of the snow away.  
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I’ve grown accustomed to truly experiencing all four seasons in the Midwest, however, I adore the beginning of Spring and love everything Summer has to offer.  The sun shines bigger and brighter.  The flowers are in full bloom.  The vacations have been planned, and it’s time to pull out the sandals!  With the change and turn of the seasons, it’s also necessary to make small, refreshing, and inexpensive updates to your home.  

​It might seem daunting and overwhelming as you truly don’t know where to begin.  I have found that starting with smaller projects and working your way up will lead to a feeling of accomplishment.  Warning:  Once you start making updates, it becomes addictive!

Over the years I have dibbled and dabbled in my fair share of DIY projects.  The results are the most rewarding, so when it’s all said and done it is worth it and then some.  

Often not receiving the credit they deserve, small projects are just as important as bigger projects.  Sharing my favorite, simple, and budget-friendly spring refreshers. Get your mind into this, and as always, have fun with it.  Don’t forget to turn the music up because it just makes everything better.
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  • Shower Liners - Replace every quarter.  Yes, every 3 months!  Soap scum, mildew, and dampness begin to build up and your bathroom has a not-so-fresh feel.  Stock up and have everything you need on hand for under $25.  TIP: Visit your local TJ Maxx or Marshalls for great deals on budget friendly liners!

  • Air Filters - Replace once a month.  There once was a time I was convinced that the most expensive filter meant it worked much better.  After an energy assessment, I was advised the cheapest filters work just as well if not better.  It prevents your systems from working harder than it has to.  Visit your local hardware store and pick up 12 for under $2 each!  

  • Interior Doors - Surfaces collect dust.  All it takes is warm soap and water or your favorite disinfecting wipes to renew and brighten those doors we touch every single day.  

  • Curtains - A great refresh is taking your curtains down twice a year and throwing them in the washing machine on gentle.  I use a detergent that has a nice fragrance to give my curtains a fresh and vibrant smell.  

  • Ceiling Fans - Often the most forgotten!  I can guarantee if you looked up and saw a layer of dust you know what time it is.  Again, grab your favorite wipes and go to town.  If you use your fans often you probably want to clean them every couple of months as they can collect tons of dust.

  • Garage - No time like the present to break down those boxes that have piled up over the Winter.  Invest in a storage shelf for under $20 and organize your chaos.  Paint cans, garden accessories, tools, and whatever else needs a shelf of its own will reduce the stress and disgust each and every time you open that garage door.
Not only was that easy, but your house also smells amazing, you feel refreshed and a sense of accomplishment has covered you like the warm afternoon sun!

There never seems to be enough time or hours in the day to accomplish everything on your list.  For some, our days start early and end late.  Great balance is time for family, an efficient and productive work day, personal time for yourself, and carving out just a bit of your life for actual fun.  It doesn’t typically happen this way, but with all things, after a little practice and patience, you can create the environment and space that makes you happy.  

~AJ 🌻
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